RELATIONSHIPS:
One of the strong “foundations” in early childhood is developing “relationships” with children, teachers and parents. I will focus briefly on teacher -> child relationships and how this is seen in our everyday interactions. I will make this brief as my presentation will be more detailed but here are some thoughts….
- Attitude is important for all teachers to help establish a positive relationships each day.
- Building brain development through positive interactions helps create brain growth and esteem.
- Consistent and responsive caregiving help children develop self-regulation and strengthen bonds.
- Developmentally appropriate practices build security within each child.
- Emotional development comes from listening, responding, and understanding.
- Fun times with children 1:1 or in groups help build community of learners.
- Gratitude for each child’s uniqueness establishes connections of purpose for children.
- Happy children and happy adults help form bonds of adventures in learning.
- Imagination and play create an environment that is safe and secure.
- Joy is found in the eyes of children as they play with materials, interact, and problem solve.
- Kindness is taught by example and gentleness by experience.
- Love is understanding that all children are not the same and appreciate when you give support in care.
- Music and singing gives children and teachers togetherness that makes the heart smile.
- Nothing is better that a teacher understanding what children need at any moment in time.
- Open your world as a teacher and explore new ways of forming positive connections daily.
- Please make every moment count with children and give them time to make choices.
- Question yourself in the “role as a teacher” and ask yourself, “are you doing your best”?
- Respect children’s choices and make the environment safe.
- Success is built into daily routines.
- Talk with children, listen, respond, and show compassion throughout the day.
- Uniqueness of each child can be appreciated as you foster independence and differences.
- Visual cues in children’s behaviors can be a teachable moment to savor.
- Wait and see while playing with children to see how they problem solve and support when needed.
- “Examine” ways you can foster and create play experiences to include all children.
- Yes, to practice new skills for children and teachers.
- Zero comes before 1 and that’s where we begin with relationship building with children.
Questions:
- How can you start to form, continue to form, or establish times throughout the day to form positive relationships that are “meaningful” to children?
- What is the important of establishing a classroom climate of consistency, predictability, respectful, and joyful play that enhances each child and yourself in a caring community of learners?
- How can you share with “parents” and other teachers the joys of the children you work with?
- How can you balance the care of children with routines, schedules and general child care tasks to include children in the process without “rushing” them?
- How can you as a teacher establish relationships with children so you find joy, happiness, and a purpose in your work?
- Why is building relationships important for the children, yourself, teachers, and with parents?
To my future readers. I will soon be writing in my Blog. With Covid, the changing schools, policies, classroom set-up, routines/schedules, cleaning, and individual play has changed as the school year began. I will be giving “my view” and suggestions (and raised questions) on the role of the teacher in the classrooms and the implications the “changes” might/will have on the children. Feel free to comment. Manuel Kichi Wong